In marriage is "" always "making love" or after a while is it just "bumping uglies"

Every once in a while you have that emotional bonding , but most of the time, the is a mixture of it all-you have your "eye gazing" moments, and then all of a sudden-bam! It goes into a faster pace or positions change. At least that is how it is in my relationship. I kinda get it all with each session.. :o)